弟兄姊妹

这位弟兄姊妹

知道你这一阵子绝不容易渡过，但我知道神是知道

而且已应允了你的祈祷

你妈妈她已经信了主

解脱了痛苦，亦己经上了天家和父神一起。 知道人世间的分离是很难过，但你和你爸爸己信了主

未来日子你们一定可以在天家重聚。 我虽行在患难中

你必将我救活； [诗138 :7 上 ] 我呼求的日子

你就应允我

鼓励我

使我心里有能力 。 [诗 138: 3 ] 首先

你可以找你教会的牧师和传道人为你和你爸爸祈祷

求神把安慰临到你一家身上，往后日子

可鼓励你爸多返教会

亦可去参加一些义工工作

而你也要保重身体。 不要放弃

神会为你和 你爸爸一家开路

为你们祈祷。 弟兄 亚波

参考: 圣经

你看! 那么多人支持你!! 加油哦~!! 上天堂 是去一个完全无痛苦的地方~ 不要悲伤太久 她去了这个完美的地方等你~! 为你和你的家人祈祷!!!

I am terribly sorry to hear ur lost. My cousin passed away suddently on 年29 last year (January 27

2006) at the age of 14. That was my first time spending Chinese New Year in Hong Kong since my family moved to Canada for almost 10 years and I was very excited because we didn't really celebrate Chinese New Year in Canada and I was expecting many 红封包. My uncle (my dad's younger brother)

my cousins (the cousin who passed away and his sister) and I were leaving their flat (I was living at their place at the time) to meet up with our grandparents and other family members for 团年饭 at about 6:30 pm. We were taking the elavator and when we almost reached the ground floor

my cousin passed out all of the sudden. My uncle quickly pull him out to the lobby when we reached the ground floor and I called 999. However

on the way to the hospital

my cousin stopped breathing and no more heart beats. He was certified at about 9:30 pm on the same day. I was totally shocked. I made so many pl on who I am going to visit and how I would spend my lucky money. Dealing with my 14-yr-old cousin's death was totally unexpected. I did not understand why he died. In fact the doctors did not know the actual cause of his death of the day

they thought it's flu virus infected his brain or something like that. But later after performing an autopsy on him

doctors found that the real cause of his death was some plicated geic disease from his mom's side. It was especially heart-broken for me that he was NOT a Christian. In the hospital I kept asking God where's my cousin now what is going to happen to him. He's only 14 and he had been a very good boy. I did not understand why God would do such thing to us. I was thinking did I do something wrong? I did not perform CPR on him because he still had strong heart beat at the lobby. I wanted to find out exactly what the doctors did and see if they had missed any steps. My brain was just loaded with questions I just had no clue how to handle anything. My aunt and uncle were much worse. They lost the elder and only son. And my grandparents... I don't even want to think about it. Thinking about all these just makes me wanna cry. I am sharing my most painful memory with you just to let you know that YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I can totally understand what you are going through especially with the 'you want to die with your mom' part. It is absolutely normal. If I can I would love you hug you and cry with you. But after what had happened I can still tell you that God has been wonderful for my family. Because of my cousin's death

other family members from his mom's side realized that they have this hidden geic disease so this can prevent more tragedies in the future. More

my uncle never thought of God and Christianity before but now he is starting to go to church

and so is my cousin's sister. God eased our pain. Even at this point I still miss my cousin terribly but I know that God loves me and God loves him too. But honestly

I find it hard to help my aunt and uncle to 适应生活 without their son plus now I am back in Canada. In your case

I think being more socially active and get out more can help your father. From personal experience

staying home alone can only make things worse. And try to talk and share about your feelings. The more you say it out the more you know how to handle the fact. I talked to my friends and it was helpful. I don't know how to pray for your mom since she has passed away but I can pray for your dad and yourself for sure. I pray that you will be able to see God's fabulous plan for your mom

your dad

and yourself.

我好明白你既感受 但系你要感恩

因为你妈妈已信主 我也会为你代祷 by emily~

不要哀痛

你的母亲既能进天家

这是何其大的恩典福气!时候快到了

这是暂时的分离

你会很快见到你的母亲!不要想这么多了! 你要思念天上的事

常以神为乐! 诗篇90:12 「 求你指教我们怎样数算自己的日子，好叫我们得着智慧的心」前面的日子不多

你要持守主所吩咐

努力为主而活! 怎面对生死 腓立比书「20 照着我所切慕所盼望的、没有一事叫我羞愧、只要凡事放胆．无论是生、是死、总叫基督在我身上照常显大。 21 因我活着就是基督、我死了就有益处。 22 但我在肉身活着、若成就我工夫的果子、我就不知道该挑选甚么。 23 我正在两难之间、情愿离世与基督同在．因为这是好得无比的． 24 然而我在肉身活着、为你们更是要紧的。 25 我既然这样深信、就知道仍要住在世间、且与你们众人同住、使你们在所信的道上、又长进又喜乐． 26叫你们在基督耶稣里的欢乐、因我再到你们那里去、就越发加增。」 要仿效保罗

这是对的! 我以这样劝勉你

你就这样劝勉你! 起来!振作刚强吧! 我会为你祷告的! 2007-02-19 17:10:14 补充： 更正-我这样劝勉你

你就这样劝勉你父亲吧!

主内的Green Dragon朋友， 听到你的事也为你很难过，我和其他的弟兄姊妹一样，会为你祈祷的，希望你不要难过、沮丧、哀伤。我们、你父亲及天父...一定会支持你的。 大卫被仇敌迫害时也处于非常痛苦，他这样说：「我 因 唉 哼 而 困 乏 ． 我 每 夜 流 泪 、 把 床 榻 漂 起 、 把 褥 子 溼 透 。诗 6:6」 但神安慰他：「 一 宿 虽 然 有 哭 泣 、 早 晨 便 必 欢 呼 。 诗 30:5」。 约伯在失去一切时，无人明白，连前来的三个朋友也不谅解他，但他 没 有 违 弃 那 圣 者 的 言 语 、 就 仍 以 此 为 安 慰 、 在 不 止 息 的 痛 苦 中 、 还 可 踊 跃 。 (伯 6:10) 我也希望你在他的话语里得到安慰。 希望神亲自安慰你：「哀 恸 的 人 有 福 了 ． 因 为 他 们 必 得 安 慰 。」太 5:4 记得天父明白你的痛苦，珍惜你的眼泪：「我 几 次 流 离 、 你 都 记 数 ． 求 你 把 我 眼 泪 装 在 你 的 皮 袋 里 ． 这 不 都 记 在 你 册 子 上 么 。」诗 56:8 到一天，我们的神 要 擦 去 我们 一 切 的 眼 泪 ． 不 再 有 死 亡 、 也 不 再 有 悲 哀 、 哭 号 、 疼 痛 、 因 为 以 前 的 事 都 过 去 了 。(启 21:4) 求主保守、安慰你。

亲人离世，当然悲痛，事实已在，伤痛无益，收起悲伤，互相扶持，努力创明天，你主看顾。愿你快乐如意。

我亦为你们祈祷.

我在半年前也有同一遭遇 这位弟兄/姊妹 不要太难过 你要相信你mama 现在是和主同在 她是很快乐的. 你的难过主是知道的

多祷告. 我会为你祷告 In Christ

Joanna

亲爱的朋友 主必带领你们走过死荫的幽谷 诗73:26 指出生命中最大的福份便是与神同在

你们已经得着了 加油呀

别气馁 为你祈祷