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大男孩哭泣

Big boys don’t cry,” said the doctor.大男孩没有哭， “医生说。 I was five years old and he was about to stick a very big needle into my very small arm.我5岁，他关于坚持一个非常大的针我非常小的胳膊。 “It won’t hurt,” he said. “这不会伤害， ”他说。 But, he lied.但是，他撒谎。 It did hurt and, big boy or not, I did cry.它没有受伤，并没有大的男孩，我也哭了起来。

Sign of weakness软弱的迹象

Boys and men, of course, aren’t supposed to cry.男孩和男人，当然，不应该哭泣。 They are supposed to be strong and silent.他们被认为是强有力的和沉默。 They aren’t supposed to cry when they feel pain and certainly not when they feel sad.他们不应该哭泣当他们感到疼痛，当然不会当他们感到难过。 Crying, they are told, is a sign of weakness.哭了，他们被告知，是一种软弱的迹象。 It’s okay for girls and women to cry because, supposedly, they are the weaker sex.这是好是女童和妇女的哭泣，因为据称，他们是弱者。 At least that’s what people used to think.至少这是人们过去认为。

Things are changing事情正在发生变化

Today things are changing.今天的事情正在发生变化。 A few weeks ago, Roger Federer lost the championship match at the Australian Open (澳网公开赛).几个星期前，费德勒失去决赛在澳大利亚网球公开赛（澳网公开赛） 。 He’d played his heart out against Raphael Nadal but still lost.他会发挥出他的心对拉斐尔纳达尔，但仍丢失。 At the awards ceremony he began to cry.在颁奖典礼上，他开始哭了起来。 He wasn’t hurt, he was just very sad to have lost the match.他没有受伤，他只是非常遗憾地失去了比赛。 The Australian audience didn’t laugh at his tears; they applauded him for being honest about the way he felt.澳大利亚观众没有嘲笑他的眼泪;他们称赞他为诚实的方式，他认为。

Show your emotions查看你的情绪

Boys, especially teenage boys, don’t like to talk about their feelings or show people what they are thinking, and that’s okay.男孩，特别是十几岁的男孩，不喜欢谈论自己的感情或人们展示他们的思维，这也是好的。 But sometimes it’s not healthy to keep things inside.但有时这不是健康保持里面。 Sometimes it’s better to show your emotions and even to shed a tear.有时候，更好地展示您的情绪，甚至下跌泪。 When you do, people won’t think you are being weak; they will understand that you, just like Roger Federer, are being honest and they will admire you.当您这样做，人们就会认为你是弱者，他们会理解你，就像费德勒，正在诚实的，他们会佩服你。